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MEET ME AT THE COFFEE SHOP- SPILLING SOME TEA ON HOW I FEEL ABOUT "F*CK BOYS... (SHOULD BE COFF

  • Writer: Nachelle Leslie Marshall
    Nachelle Leslie Marshall
  • Jan 21, 2018
  • 2 min read

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"Never trust anyone who doesn't drink coffee" -AJ LEE


Recently I have been obsessed with coffee shops. I have spent so many years thinking that Starbucks was the ONLY coffee that I could ever love. Boy, was I wrong!!! I love the aesthetics of coffee shops and the smell. It definitely beats the Starbucks drive through. I love to sit at a coffee shop alone and think. It may seem weird but my best ideas come from doing so. Recently I have been thinking about relationships, why some last and why some don't. When will being a "fuck boy" go out of style and when will guys begin to ask girls on dates instead of to Netflix and chill?? I've decided this year not to waste my time with temporary relationships. I'm done making excuses for why so and so didn't text me for three days and now he's texting me "I miss you." If a dude decides to "ghost" me, then that's his issue. Not mine. I'm over feeling like shit because a dude who doesnt even deserve my time didn't text me for three days and now he's texting me "I miss you" text. If a dude decides to "ghost" me, then that's his issue. Not mine. The minute a guy starts to act a little shady... I’m out!!! I’m over feeling like shit because a dude invested so much time, in the beginning, convincing me to like him and as soon as I fall his crap, he drops me and I never hear from him again! That's bull crap and I will not stand for it anymore! I feel like I spent a lot of the past year crying over dudes who don't even matter now. The way I see it is "If you're not all in, you're in the way". I look back and wonder why I ever allowed myself to feel so low over a stupid boy. I know my worth, I know I'm an amazing person and I know what I want/what I deserve. Right now I want to be single and enjoy life. @AshleyandSun on twitter tweeted, "I realized this year that even though you may want a person in your life more than anything in the world it doesn't always necessarily mean that person should be in your life, if they don't value you enough then the position you wanted them to fill is for someone more deserving of it." and it hit me, the right person will come, and I won't have to question if this is right or why he is at the bar and I didn't get an invite..lol. 2018 is the year of me! I'm going to spend this year enjoying my own company and bettering myself for me and the right person :). I'm so excited for the future and for more coffee shops!!!








 
 
 

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